Fun reception - get a photo booth from T-Ross:http://www.t-ross.com/
you get a great photobook and your guests get photos to take home!
D.I.Y. flowers - Costco bulk flowers, they order in and you pick up!
Great cakes - use Cheryl Abbott from "Out of the Box cakes" Arlington, NE
We had a wonderful wedding & reception!! We hope you do as well with some or all of these referrals!