"friend" help...

jobiann

Okay, this is a vent and plea for good advice. Bit of background. A friend and I kinda had a falling out when my FI and I started dating a few years ago. Pretty much she was upset him and I were spending so much time together. (however I don't think she'd ever admit this is the issue, she thinks it is something I've done.) She never would ask how the relationship was going, never called, she pretty much pretended that he and we (him and I) didn't exist. She claims it is my fault for no longer hanging out with her. Fast foward to about 6 months ago, casual talking here and there, her ignoring me and me hearing through others her bashing me. Now time for the wedding. I was feeling sentimental on the friendship we once had and sent her a invitation to the wedding. Now I'm regretting it. My RSVP deadline was last Friday. I sent out this mass email to all my friends on Facebook who hadn't sent in their RSVP's yet. Everyone else I did this too immediately sent back a reply, apologized for not getting in the RSVP on time. Through the grapevine, I heard she told a mutual friend that she couldn't believe I emailed her instead of calling and that she wasn't going to RSVP she was just going to make me sweat it out. What do I do? I don't want someone like that at my wedding!! Help!!

klovesd

There really is nothing you can do since you've already sent the invite. I would just not worry about it. I really didn't want one of DH's GM's BF there because she's rude, childish, etc. However, the day of the wedding I was so happy and excited to be with all my close friends, family, and DH that I really didn't even notice/care she was there. I know it may seem like the end of the world right now, but trust me-the day of the wedding you're going to be having so much fun you really won't notice if she's there or not.

kellidanae

Unfortunately you can't uninvite her...but you will be so busy with your wedding party and talking to those who care, you won't really have to mess with her. She will be one bad spot out of so many great guests, don't let her bug you. You were the bigger person for sending the invite in the first place, keep being that more mature, upbeat positive person you are. Don't let her wreck anything. And besides, it isn't like you sent her the official invite on Facebook, just a reminder. She is jealous, so just grin about what a good thing you have . GL.

kimmycowart

klovesd is sooo right

jobiann

Well, no RSVP yet from her despite one phone message, two facebook messages and one text message.  So I think it safe to say she isn't coming, if she is, she has balls.