getting to be that time

missyishere

So I'm a little less than a year out.  I'm getting nervous since my budget isn't official.  I am unsure if I should do a ton more planning considering we aren't sure how much we are going to be able to spend.  We also have another scare right now- the 10% budget cut for the state of Iowa.  My fiance works for the gov't and may be in danger of being laid off.  Considering I only work part-time right now, we're hoping to God he doesn't get laid off.  If he does, we may very well not be able to get married next year.  *sigh

kellidanae

Chin up! I am not a big national board person, but occasionally I stock those that are on the front page of the knot daily. The budget board has a lot of good suggestions, and doesnt' seem as harsh as some boards. Has FI been warned their are layoffs coming, or are the two of you just worried about it? I am the worst at doing this, so I know I should take my own advice, but you can't plan around "what if". I would go with your currently planned date, make a list of things that you need to do, want to do, and prioritize those. Note what can wait until the last minute (or needs to wait in case the date changes), look for a venue that has a loop hole in the contract in case of extinuating circumstances and would possibly allow you to change your date, but stay with them. Think about the items you can cut from the to-do list based on budget if it gets smaller.Those are my best suggestions. The unknown does make it hard, but continuing with some of the planning might also keep your mind off of things. Good luck.

erinnhahn

I agree.  I made sure to ask all of my vendors that if I had to push back my date for any reason but stuck with them, that they would work with me with no penalty and most agreed to and really only would have a problem if we decided not to go with them down the road, so that at least gives you some security and feeling of comfort.  But get your budget pinned down as soon as you can!  I meticiulously keep track of my budget and I think that has helped me not go overboard.  Just stick to your budget and you will be fine.  I'm a weeks away from my wedding and have managed to come under my budget -- but I'm an accountant so it is in my blood to be like that!  

missyishere

Thanks for the advice!  My problem is not only our budget, but what my parents can put out.  Unfortunately, we aren't the only ones feeling the heat of the recession.  I can do things on a pretty tight budget, but don't want to stress over my wedding if people can't pay their bills.  I'm definitely no accountant (in fact, it's one of my worst subjects).  I am for sure maticulous when it comes to what I want.  I will figure things out, but don't want others to feel the heat.  We've been together for 5 1/2 years- so if I can wait this long, I can wait a little longer if need be.  I appreciate the encouragement for sure!