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January 2013 Weddings

Gonna go postal

I just got an email from my FMIL asking me for a day-of schedule so that she could add stuff to it to then send to the mom of our flower girls so that FSIL and her SO could have the girls stay with them in Tulsa after the rehearsal dinner on Friday night.

At this point, I can't nail down a schedule because I can't get a hold of my stylist to figure out how much time she wants to allot to each girl since we will wind up with 13 women needing their hair done day-of.

I told my FMIL this and instead I wrote a very heartfelt letter pleading with the FGs' mom essentially begging her to allow the girls to stay in Tulsa for the night for the sake of everyone's safety. I asked FMIL to forward this on to FGs' mom

To which my FMIL responded "Don't sweat it. ILY."

Which pretty much means, FMIL is going to make up her own schedule and not forward my letter on. I'm done. I'm done with FMIL, with her interfering. I'm just ready to scream, pull all of his family from the wedding and just....urrrrrghh!

at this point, I wish we had chosen to elope. I'm so sick of this stuff.

Re: Gonna go postal

  • I said that we should just elope today too!!!! AHHH!!  LOL..
    I'm so sorry that you are dealing with that.  I think it's deeper than her just asking for the schedule though...it's more of past hurts she has caused.  I would try to forgive her and move past that stuff.  Trust me, I know it isn't easy, but it's best.  How far does she live from you?  JW.
    God is Faithful!
  • right now, about 3 seconds. hahaha. FI's still living at home so we see her pretty regularly, Hoping to put at least 10 minutes of distance between us. We'll see though. Mostly because I don't think there is any amount of distance that would subdue her antics. She managed to piss FI off from 1000 miles away. sooo....
  • Yup.  Been there.  UGH!
    God is Faithful!
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