My MOA was way up for it! She said she has just been overwhelmed and a bit down (she had said she was going to throw me a stagette 5 months ago but had not done anything yet and its 6 weeks to the wedding!) Anyway we are going to start the planning this week!

) New major issue? I have two friends that have simply not grown up. They are heavily into drugs, are still getting into fights at bars and I have decided that for the sake of drama I do NOT want them there. The last time they were invited out with some of my other friends they were doing drugs in the bathroom and starting/picking fights like children. So, I do not want to hurt them, but I want the wedding to go well and not worry about thier juvenile behavior. They will be very upset; but I am just so different then them. Its like they froze as wild girls and cannot snap out of it. I just feel a lot of guilt and really dont want to hurt them, at the same time we have nothing in common anymore (friends from Highschool) we are 30-33 now! I am thinking that I will need to tell them that we are having a small wedding and that its mainly family. Which, it pretty much is...we are having a VERY small wedding.