So my parents are paying for our wedding and they don't really feel comfortable paying for a open bar. For one there are quite a few party people coming to our wedding and they feel a open bar will only help contribute to chaos. Plus we also feel it is very unnessary to pay for everyones drinks. We are already having a very nice dinner and 4 different kinds of heavy hor dourves for cocatail hour 2 butler passed and 2 stations. We are however hosting 1 glass of one for dinner, and a champagne toast and we are hosting pop all night. My question is this rude? I ready on the E board that everyone is really aganist cash bars. What are you doing?