My MIL thinks I am totally clueless and lost with all this wedding planning! Maybe I am, but Im finishing up nursing school and am taking my boards in like 2 months, and I think thats a LITTLE more important than my wedding in 10 months!!! I have all the major things done, like the church, reception hall, my dress, photographer, etc etc. its just the little things like decorations and what not that i havent had time to think much about yet! not a big deal, right? I have time! Plus, at least i have ideas on what i want to do!!! GRRRR. Anyways, my mil is wants us to do a unity candle, so I am willing to do it for her. My question is, can I? I am not baptized. My fiance is lutheran. And a judge is marrying us. So, can we do it?