Ok...so I have kinda posted about this in the past, but it has pretty much come to a head now, and I am not totally sure what to do. My bestest friend from childhood is 'supposed' to be my PA and she also offered to throw me a shower. She asked for some local help as she is in Madison and we are here. So I connected her with another very good friend here in Minneapolis. This was back in February. A week ago, my local friend emailed me and said she hadn't heard from childhood friend. I was pretty upset, considering my childhood friend said in February that she was going to contact my local friend that week.
CH friend has not been great about returning emails and in my mind, has really dropped the ball on this. A lot of the girls that I would like to invite are out of town, so they need to know sooner than later when the shower is. I told my local friend to start planning with out CH friend and I gave her the name of another friend-this was this morning and they have already been emailing me with ideas.
SO....what do I do with the CH friend who has completely disregarded anything about anything. She sounded really enthused to be my PA and host my party, but her actions indicate different...Am I wrong to tell my local friends to start planning?