Situation...

Liberty27

My cousin thinks I am mad at her because she moved her wedding right before mine.  I am not, although I am a little disappointed because my FI won't be able to come.  If she asks me what I think of her date should I tell her the truth or just let it go?

Steph0871

If you're not *actually* upset about it, just let it go.  Don't let it ruin her day if you really don't care

emilykathleen511

Hey, people always say, "it's your day!" I don't really agree with this sentiment, but even if you went with that, you still only get ONE day. You don't get a week, a month, a season, a year, whatever. You get one day. Just act happy for her, because I'm assuming you are happy that your cousin is marrying the man she loves.

Liberty27

Yeah, i know it sounds like that....  I am really not trying to be a bridezilla.  I guess I am just not fond of spending my two weeks between Spring semester and summer intersession wedding planning for myself and attending my cousins wedding 10 hours away without my FI.  

Bimbi284

As a student, I get what you're saying about the time constraint, especially since your FI can't go. However, I'm sure she had good reasons for moving the date to when she did, and since you are really mad at her, I'd just let it go.