We're not having a caterer, (I know, we're crazy)! But, we have 4 women that my mom & I work with, that offered to help with the food. Meaning they will help set everything up, keep the buffet stocked & just help out with any food stuff in general.
My question is, do they get invited to the wedding ceremony & the reception? I know no one is a fan of a "tiered" wedding, (and neither am I), but I feel like that is what I would be doing. I don't want them to feel like they aren't welcome at the ceremony, because they are. But if they come to the ceremony, they would have to leave early to go set up the food at the reception. How do I do this tactfully?
Any suggestions would be helpful... TIA ladies! = )