I just got a call from FI's aunt and she and another aunt are going to throw me a showe! She asked me what i wanted like food, cake ,colors. I am so happy they ask for my opinon. If they didn't i still would be happy. It makes me feel like they really love me and are very excited for me to be part of their family

They didn;'t do that when FI's bro now wife got married. I think that's partly becasue she not that nice to the familys and talked really bad about how she hated her shower that the fam throw her.
It's going to be in March I can't belive it's only two months away! Just had to share.