This is my 2nd wedding. I'm not doing the big to-do, I didn't last time either. We're having a very small, casual wedding/ceremony. FI and I are planning on paying for this ourselves and it didn't even cross our minds to ask our parents for help. I was talking to my mom about wedding stuff and how I would love to do a hair/make up session for the wedding and am cutting costs by doing my own bouquet. She casually says "Oh, I don't know. I wouldn't cross those things COMPLETELY off your list, you just never know". That sounded like a hint that my parents would like to help contribute. Fine, great, that's wonderful. BUT those 2 little things are kinda a big deal and if that's the case, then I need to start looking into booking someone. My wedding is in 6 months. It's been a week since she said that...do I tell her that IF they were planning on paying for those things then I need to know now so we can start finding someone? Or do I leave it alone for another few more weeks & let her bring it up?