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Photo question for married ladies

Our photographer recently posted our photos to a photo-sharing website to view while we wait for the cds to arrive in the mail. There are a lot of beautiful shots in there, but I am disappointed with how few shots there are of our guests at the reception. They documented the speeches and cake cutting very nicely, and got a few of people mingling during the cocktail hour, but the vast majority of our guests don't show up in any picutes. There are only one or two pictures of each of our parents and none of any other of our family members (and they took family picutes at the church so they should have been able to recognize who our families were).

I take some of the blame in not specifying that getting pictures of our guests was important to me, but I assumed that that's what they would be doing during the reception. We did not have a dance, but people sat around for a long time talking and mingling and there was ample opportunity for them to be snapping shots. I certainly didn't expect all of our guests to show up in a picture, but more than a handful would have been nice!

So my question to you married ladies is, is this typical? Do you have many pictures of your guests or do photographers not usually take those types of shots? They weren't even following DH and me around taking shots of us talking to people, so quite frankly, I'm not sure what else they might have been doing but it certainly wasn't taking pictures.

Sorry this got so long!

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  • LolaBelle515LolaBelle515 member
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    edited December 2011
    I imagine that "typical" ranges from photographer to photographer...but we did not have an overwhelming of reception guest pictures from ours. Probably less than 10 that weren't related to the toasts.  It wasn't a priority for us to get candids, so that might also be true for others, I don't know..

    That's a bummer that you didn't get everything you wanted! Maybe some of your guests took some cute ones?
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  • aabrahams7aabrahams7 member
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    edited December 2011
    We asked for a lot of candid photos of the guests as opposed to a bunch of formal shots so that is what we got.
  • edited December 2011
    We got some pictures of the guests. But, for the most part the pictures with guests revolved around something important that was going on around them. 

    I did, however, put the call out to our guests for additional pictures and got a TON back with the guests specifically in them. They were fun cause we got a lot of people doing things that were fun to see when were weren't around. 

    You might try talking to friends/family and see if they have additional photos that you could have. Also, Target now allows you to print directly from Facebook. So, if people posted them on there you could get copies that way too. 
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  • tpender13tpender13 member
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto PPs -- reach out to your guests and see if they can share some pics with you. I don't really think it's your photog's fault if you didn't point out that you wanted pictures of your guests.
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  • MaggieandJakeMaggieandJake member
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    edited December 2011
    I would say about 1/2 of our reception shots were of guests-which I really did enjoy since we didn't get to spend as much time with each guest as we would have liked to-so it was fun seeing them enjoying themselves through pictures.  Our photographer basically went from table to table and so we got at least 1 picture of each guest who attended and he also took a lot during our open dancing.  

    I don't know that this is "typical" per se, but I'm glad that my photographer did it, because like you, I would have never thought to request it. 
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_minnesota-minneapolis-st-paul_photo-question-married-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:81Discussion:c28bac7d-3829-4663-b843-9b20501e7592Post:128074e5-9e6b-46db-911e-3c678c488aec">Re: Photo question for married ladies</a>:
    [QUOTE]I imagine that "typical" ranges from photographer to photographer...but we did not have an overwhelming of reception guest pictures from ours. Probably less than 10 that weren't related to the toasts.  It wasn't a priority for us to get candids, so that might also be true for others, I don't know.. That's a bummer that you didn't get everything you wanted! Maybe some of your guests took some cute ones?
    Posted by LolaBelle515[/QUOTE]

    This was us as well. Our Photog did a great job getting tables and the dance floor the first couple songs. She got more than we expected.
  • wittyschaffywittyschaffy member
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    edited December 2011
    I got just the right amount - but I told our photog I wanted pics of the folks at tables and some of the dance floor.  they happily obliged.
  • edited December 2011
    We did table visits during lunch (afternoon wedding), and our photogs followed us (without us asking) so we had at least a few photos with all of our guests. I'm gald we got those pictures; since we didn't have a dance, we probably wouldn't have otherwise. 

    What kind of pictures did you get from the reception? They probably didn't want to take pictures while people were eating, but if there were people just sitting at the tables during the reception, they probably didn't want to snap pictures of that either?
  • klinel01klinel01 member
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    edited December 2011
    We got lots of candids, but that is what she specializes in.

    Sorry about your photographer, did you tell her you were dissappointed? Maybe she has some extras she didn't include (because they weren't the best) that she could give you?
  • graysquirrelgraysquirrel member
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    edited December 2011
    Our photographer took very few shots of guests. She took a few of our friends waiting for the ceremony to start, but the rest were focused on us, our family, and the WP. I had shown her a lot of shots I wanted and that is what she gave us-- none of them featured guests. I am ok with this since, like pps said, a lot of our guests took photos of each other during the dance. I agree with everyone to ask around. Have your friends posted stuff on FB? I got a ton of pics of our reception from FB. 
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  • brink131brink131 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for all your perspectives ladies! I'll definitely grab some photos from FB and ask around for pics from people. I did just send an email to our photog saying that I was a bit disappointed, but that I realize it's my fault for not making my wishes clearer ahead of time. Oh well, not much to do about it now except enjoy the photos that we do have.
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