Showers...who plans?

Linzstyle

My mom called this morning asking if any of my bridesmaids had talked to my sister (maid of honor) yet about our wedding showers.  I don't think they have, but I didn't really know that I should be worrying about it.  I know I'd proabably be bummed if no one threw me a shower, but I've got enough going on planning the wedding! 
Should I send a friendly email to my girls asking them to contact my sister and help/give suggestions etc.?

LittleSweetie

Your sister should be leading the charge, not you - your  mom should be calling your sister about this.  Technically, you're not allowed to ask about your own showers at all - that's tacktastic to the max.

akstanl

My MOH (sister) and bridesmaid are throwing mine in combination with the bachelorette party. Last night the nurse I always work with asked me if I wanted a shower at work, or basically asked if it would be ok if they threw me one. I agree with Littlesweetie, I would say call your mom back and tell her to ask your sister instead of you, that you're not aware of anything regarding a shower.

LyndseyLC

My FI's mom and step-mom are each throwing me a shower.  FI's mom told me some ladies at church want to have a shower for me as well.  I wish my mom was more involved and my BM's have nothing really to do with the planning of these showers, although when it gets closer they might help out with games.  All I did was email guest list and addresses to FI's mom and step-mom.