ok, so i am on a 1-income-with-a-kid-no-help-from-the-fam budget for my wedding, and im starting to research vendors/venues and everything else i will need. i think i have found a photog that is affordable and does GREAT work, im thinking about having the wedding at cellar222, which is $1200 for a friday. we are only planning on having a reception, no ceremony. i was wondering if any of you had solutions/recommendations for saving money on food and music. or if anyone has ever just had the ipod at their reception. if so, how did it work out? my biggest concern is food!!