I am stressed/ and confused and need support
I am my two nieces in our wedding. We are having my sisters daughter (2 years old) and my brothers daughter (7 years old) in the wedding as flower girls.
Back when my dress came in and I had to try it on to make sure everything was okay, my sister in law, my younger sister, and mother came with me. While we were there we found a flower girl dress that I really liked. Very simple white long dress, a little beading on the front, and a lace up back that I can have the ribbon match my color (charcoal grey) The back also matches my dress and the bridesmaid dresses as we all have lace up.
I was excited about it because I was having a hard time in figuring out if I should put the girls in different dresses bc of the difference in age, but was worried that this would not work out (which in the long run i dont think different dresses are going to work because i want the girls to receive "equal" attention and not have anyone treat either girl differently or think that one is cuter then the other) I thought that the dress would be perfect for either age. My sister was not crazy about it, and thought it was too old for her daughter to wear, and every time I bring it up she has been very short with me. So today I asked her about it and she said that "she doesn't care for the dress" but it was my wedding and she does not want to stress me out. But in turn i think i dont want her paying for a dress she doesn't like.
I attempted to show my sister in law some other dresses today without my sister knowing to see what she liked and she thought the ones i liked were too babyish for her daughter. She texted me back with i like the first one but if you guys like the other ones it fines. So i needed to reiterrate that my sister was not involved in this and it was just me.
I feel like its a lose, lose situation. And I am super stressed and confused!
Am I looking too far into it? Here is a picture of the dress I really liked the first time around