So apparently my stepdad wants to divorce my mother and has been talking to a married woman whose husband has no idea that she's talking to my stepdad. I just texted my stepdad asking if his parents are coming to the wedding and he starts on a tirade "whats the name of the hotel, I'm not sharing a room with your mother." I responded my mom got 3 rooms and he needs to stay in a separate one anyway cause the kids need to be all split up cause there's only 2 beds in each room. He says "good as long as I don't sleep in the same room as her."
He then proceeds to tell me he's bringing a guest, aka this married woman. Over a text message he tells me. I'm like "um hell no you are not, I'm not paying for your homewrecker to come cause drama on my WEDDING DAY" and then he tells me me and my mom have bled him dry and that's why he's got all these financial issues now. Keep in mind I've thought of this man as a father for the past 10 years. So I'm pretty much sobbing and told him he's not welcome at my wedding if that's how he really feels about me. He then replies "fine but my children won't be there either" aka my 2 sisters and 2 brothers, my flower girls and ring bearers. I'm just like... wow. Over my DEAD BODY will they not be there.
I don't even know what to do right now. I just don't understand why I had to be involved in the middle of drama my stepdad is causing. My mom had no idea he's been talking to this woman and wanted a divorce until last week. And the week before that they had just went on a date and bought a new car together for my mom to drive since she totaled hers in the accident she was in.
Sorry for rambling but I happened to be on the computer when all this happened and it's a little late to call anyone.... WHyyyy does there need to be any more added stress so close to my wedding. I don't get it.