April 2012 Weddings

So anxious so stressed so excited

is this feeling normal? The 28th seems to be creeping up. I feel like I'm so unprepared even though everyone says I am. One minute I'm super excited can't wait. Then when i realize all that I need to do and figure out I get freaked. My coordinator and venue have been so helpful( helped me avoid a major meltdown at venue cause I couldn't figure out how to arrang tables). Then I felt better. Then realized I have to do a day of time line so hair makeup photographer know when to be at my house. I'm feeling just a little overwhelmed. Fiance is so amazing telling me to relax but I feel the sooner I get stuff figured out the less stressed I'll be.

Re: So anxious so stressed so excited

  • I sure hope its normal, becasue I have been feeling the same way! 
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I am getting married the 28th as well and feel the same way. I'm convinced I'm forgetting something even tho FI assures me I'm not....
  • It is completely normal.  Just make your lists of things to do and remember the purpose of the day to help keep calm.
  • rlavachrlavach member
    1000 Comments Second Anniversary 5 Love Its
    edited April 2012
    Absolutely normal. I go through every emotion humanly possible all in one day...occasionally at the same time. 
  • I feel the same way as you. I am getting married on the 29th and sometimes when I realize how close it is I freak out and can't breathe for like 2 minutes then it passes. But I definitely feel better after I get stuff done. I also feel like I still have so much to do. But it's really not that bad in reality.

    I have some advice though. I am watching Bridezillas right now and it made me realize something. Those brides are crazy and can't handle anything and that makes me feel better because I know I can handle my wedding way better than they can. I see them losing it over something that most brides wouldn't think is a big deal. Try watching it and you will probably realize that the things we are stressing over are minor compared to those psycho brides.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Ok, made feel better!!! I thought I was crazy lol!!! Nice to know I'm not alone lol. Were almost there!!!! :) so exciting!!!!
  • Add me to this list!  The 21st is so close -- I was OK at 3 weeks, but now?  Yikes!!

    I've watched those "bridezillas" and swore I'd never become one -- my fiance says I'm not even close -- lol!!  Lists are wonderful things to have!

    Can't wait to marry my sweetie!
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards