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April 2013 Weddings

Rough Weekend

Saturday was my bachelorette party, and it was a rough one. Not because I drank too much but because my mom thinks I have the flu lol. I started to not feel well on Wednesday; Thursday sucked hard and I had Friday off work which I was thankful for. But I spent all day cleaning and trying to get ready for Saturday.

I woke up Saturday still feeling crappy and tried to put on my best party face. Party started at my house at about 6ish, I only had one drink, and everything was going well until we got on the bus. I am a sucker for motion sickness, I get it pretty badly, and boy was it bad this time lol. Our first destination was about an hour away - I had no part in planning, everything was a surprise. My sister (MOH) is only 19 and her and her friend both had fake ID's; and they couldn't get into the bar so they had to go back on the bus. Meanwhile a few of us were inside to use the bathroom and stuff and the motion sickeness got to me and I threw up. Yay.

So we decided to try a 18 and up club, and that was 30 minutes from where we were but everyone was ready to dance so we went. It started out fun, we were all dancing and having a great time and once I stopped dancing it was game over. I got so dizzy and like every 20 minutes I would have to throw up. I would be fine one minute and the next was brutal.

We ended up leaving around 1230 to head home. Normally once I am out of the car for a few minutes I will feel better but I couldn't shake the feeling. I didn't leave the couch all day yesterday, and I am sitting at work right now half dying. I will probably leave early. I feel so bad that I ruined the night for everyone. My bridal party all chipped in and got the bus and I feel like I should pay them back. Overall I had a good time, and everyone told me they had a great time, but I still feel guilty. What do you guys think? Or maybe I could just add something more to their gift? Ugh, this sucks. 

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Re: Rough Weekend

  • Aw, that sucks! I'm sorry you're not feeling well. :( Whatever you do, don't feel guilty for being sick! That was completely out of your control!!! I'm sure whatever you originally planned as a thank you gift will be fine too :)

    Definitely get off work early if you can; get lots of rest! I hope you feel better!
  • Aw I'm really sorry to hear - that sucks a lot. I wouldn't feel guilty though. These are your closest friends - they wanted to do something nice for you. The fact that you got sick was out of anyone's control and they know that, so you don't need to repay them. If you feel you want to do something, just write them each a nice personal thank you note. I think that should be plenty!

    I hope you feel better soon!
  • Aww I was so worried this was going to happen to me.  Also, one of my BMs had a migraine all weekend but she was able to take medicine in time so she was just a little dizzy all weekend, which is way worse than the last one that landed her in the hospital.

    I'm sure everyone isn't concerned about getting an extra gift to make up for you being sick.  I'm sure they just want you to feel better fast :-)  So do we!
  • Oh no!  I hope you feel better!  I am sorry you were sick.
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  • Wow. Sorry that the sickness ruined much of your night!! Your friends definitely won't be concerned with the cost factor - I'm sure they feel guilty, too, that you didn't really get to enjoy it much. They would rather you feel better ASAP! I agree that a hand written thank you note is more than enough :) Definitely get some rest and feel better soon!
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  • ohhh nooo!!! I hope you are feeling better. You are such a trooper! FI had his stag (we call bachelor parties up here stags's) He was in rough shaper....He drank so much he was also in bed by 11:30pm, was a HOT MESS on Sunday and was still feeling $hitty yesterday. He is an axact examply of what I DON'T want to be for mine :)
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