I'll try to condense this. My mom has a cousin. The cousin's son recently had a destination wedding, and now they're having a reception here at home for everyone who wasn't invited to the wedding. I got an invitation to the reception, but not the wedding. It's adults only and I can't afford $100+ for a sitter, so we're not going. I did send a gift from the registry, though.
I'm curious about several things - I haven't seen the groom in, oh, about 15 years, and he hasn't written or called or anything like that. He lives 2 states away and I doubt he could pick me out of a lineup. I see his parents 2-3 times a year at various family functions. Is it odd that I would be invited to his reception, given that it has been so long since I've seen or heard from him? I was rather surprised to get the invitation, honestly. Would you guys have gone to the reception? Would you send a gift or no gift? Do you consider the invitation a faux pas since we haven't had any contact in 15 years? Some of this will apply to my own destination wedding so I'm looking for opinions and trying not to make myself look like a dufus when our time rolls around.
58 invited
| 17 love destination weddings
20 can't make it
| 21 don't know what to do with a RSVP card
RSVP Deadline: March 8th