We are getting ready to ask everyone to stand up with us as our bridal party. Ours seems pretty large. I am asking 7 girls to be BM's and then I have 2 younger cousins (9 and 7) who can call themselves whatever they want - FG/BM. FI plans on asking 6 or 7 plus 2 RB's.
I know we have a lot of people, but the general rule around here is ask the people you would call at 3am to help you bury a body. And I couldn't imagine not having them up there with me on our wedding day. But here is my 'dilemma'. One of the girls I plan on asking is a twin. I am obviously closer to the one, but am still good friends with the sister, mostly because of twin 1.
I guess I just want to hear your perspective on this. I don't want to ask her just because I feel bad. But I still feel bad. Am I over thinking this? Please tell me yes.
Also, tell me how many are standing up for you!