I was wondering if anyone has been to a wedding where the bridal party did not have flowers. I found a really great gem/brooch bouquet on etsy so I won't be having a bridal flower bouquet, and it got me thinking....do the bridesmaids necessarily need flowers? Has anyone been to a wedding where they didn't have anything? Our colors are lavender and black and the guys are going to have silk lavender handkerchiefs (sp?) nicely folded in their suit pocket instead of bouts. We will still do MOG/MOB pin on corsages. It isn't necessarily a money saving technique, I just don't see the need for them. Would my girls look silly not carrying something? Advice please? THANKS!