Here's my rough draft of the Day-of Timeline:
2:00 - Ladies arrive for hair & make-up
Hair dresser/make-up artist arrives
*Bride will be middle person to get hair/make-up done
4:00 - Florist delivers flowers/boutonnieres
4:45 - Men arrive at Mrs. Kathy's house to get ready
Photographers arrive at getting ready places
5:30 - Florist & baker arrive at TM to deliver/set up
6:00 - Hair & make-up done
Formal wedding party pictures (possibly men only, see 7:30)
6:30 - Limos arrive
6:45 - Leave for TM (ladies and men)
7:30 - Arrive at TM
Formal bridal party pictures with bride's attendants/family (see 6:00)
8:00 - Ceremony
8:30 - Reception
Formal pictures with bridal party until 8:45
8:45 - Formal pictures of bride & groom
9:00 - Formal pictures finished
Bride & groom join reception
10:45 - Photographer leaves
11:30 - Send-off
Thoughts/concerns encouraged!