Ok this is kind of an odd issue I'm having. My fiance's aunt offered to throw us a couples shower a long time ago when we first got engaged. We were thrilled and said of course and have kept in touch and agreed that it would be on September 15th. Several weeks ago she was asking very specific questions about shower themes, food, etc. The issue is that we have not received an invitation for the shower. My bridal party and our family members have asked if they should continue to keep that day open for the shower despite not having received invitations and I'm not sure what to tell them. Is it rude to call and say hey just wondering how everything was going...and by the way when are you sending invites? It's in 10 days and while I'm so grateful she is wanting to throw us a party, I seriously just don't know what to tell people about what time and if it's happening, etc when they ask. What would y'all do? Thanks