ok so Fi and I have been struggling with the whole parent gift thing...we wanted to do something nice for them since they have give us so much but the thing is both have said not to get them anything (like we will listen) and the truth is money is pretty tight now especially after getting a house...WDYT...i suggested giving them a 'coupon' of some sorts inviting them to a special dinner at our new place after the wedding. Is this stupid?? I thought the best gift is the gift of your time and I thought both of our parents will enjoy this. Is this dumb?