What are your thoughts? I live in here my family lives in the Boston area. My little cousin is 20 he goes to college full time he lives with his folks. He told me he will do all the music for my ceremony as his gift to us. I was super happy as this saves us some money the church choir ($500) He will play the piano and have songs on an iPod. Since he will need to come down earlier then his folks (who will drive down on Saturday morning or late Friday) he will ride down with my brother (on Wednesday). Then can practice the church’s piano & electrical system and be available for the rehearsal. His folks are very controlling I know one reason he decided on this is so he does not have to travel with his folks and so he can hang out with my brothers instead of being stuck with his parents. I understand I was 20 before; he is sucking his folk’s controllingness until he is done with school. I am happy, my other aunt said I should pay for his hotel room etc. my opinion is that this is his gift to us also if I had enough to pay for the hotel room (about $550) I will pay the choir. Also if he were not in the wedding his folks would make him stay in the room them. Now he is staying in my apartment with my brothers. I planned on giving him a gift card to his favorite guitar store after the wedding. I do not mean to be rude however i have helped peopel with their weddings in the past to save them money if i give everyone a crazy gift who helps out i will blow my budget.