Sorry ladies, but I need to vent a little. We are 9 days out from the wedding. We just paid the caterer and gave them the final head count on Tuesday. Today, when I called FI at lunch, he goes we have 3 more people coming to the wedding. I was like what? His one aunt's daughter, bf, and kid are coming to the wedding. They didn't get an invite because we really didn't think they would come up from West Virginia becuase of distance, money, and they don't come up to MD alot. So they just invited themselves without evening calling FI's mother and asking if it was okay. They apparently are were just going to show up. WHAT???? So I called FI's mom and she told me, since she didn't know I talked to FI. She's like they are family, I can't tell them no, they can't come. I'm like as much as I'd like to say that, it's the principle. You don't invite yourself to a wedding. FI's mom said, well she's never planned a big wedding like you are doing so she doesn't know what all it entails. That's besides the point! It's common sense, you don't invite yourself to an event you didn't get invited to. I've called Dean and Brown to see what they say, since the balance is paid and all. I know this happens, I know there will be extra food, and all, but it's the principle of all of this. Sorry, I just needed to vent. Has this happened to anyone else and if so, what has the caterer done? Thanks for letting me vent.