I got married last year (10/08) but I always have knotties at heart, so when I have a good experience I like to pass it on... Ebay seller wendyshoe1 has awesome beaded clutches that have a great vintage look and feel. I just received a black one I ordered for DH's company Christmas party and it's gorgeous - looks way more expensive than the $22 it cost IMO, and she has a bunch in wedding-friendly colors.. ivory, pink, blue, etc etc... She also has lots of inexpensive pashmina wraps, for BMs perhaps. And in the interest of honesty, I'm not him/her, don't know him/her, and don't get a cut from him/her
happy planning!