Trying to decide on a venue, but before that, we need to decide in which state that venue will be! We're having trouble because all my FI's family and friends are in Alabama and all mine are here in Kentucky. The main issue is that I've got a grandmother who has cancer and doesn't travel well, yet his mother has MS and is in the same boat. We're in quite a pickle here.
How do I decide who has to travel and who doesn't and how far? Yes, having it at an equal mid-way point for everyone would be nice, but planning a wedding that far away from home is very hard on a budget.
Advice please on how to handle and any indights that may haven't crossed my mind yet!?