So, my childhood, hometown best friend (who is like my sister) and my mom are planning a family shower for me in my hometown. The problem is that they started it off trying to make it a surprise and didn't ask anyone who was invited to the wedding, and my friend invited women that I am really no longer close to (i.e., they aren't getting invited to my wedding). It creates an awkward situation because I had not planned on inviting these women to my wedding, and don't really want them there. What is the etiquette here? Oy!