So we decided that we didn't want to stay at the same hotel as our family and friends the night of the wedding (FI has a lot of roudy friends and we don't want to risk them banging on our door all night or having to wake up early to have breakfast with his family). However, this has created a problem as far as how we would get there. The current hotel offers a free shuttle but whever we would change to would not.
How are you all getting to your hotels after the reception (if a shuttle isn't provided)? Sobering up and driving yourselves? Having friends or family drive you?