I took everyone's suggestions and sat down and talked to my MOH. I thought we really worked everything out. She was feeling badly about her own relationship and the wedding was upsetting to her. So I thought we worked it out. Well today she text me, yes text me, that she was only in the wedding because she made a commitment a while ago and that was all. She also informed me she wouldn't be staying in the hotel the night before the wedding and she would just meet me at the church separately. I decided that I would rather have a real true friend who was happy standing next to me the day of my wedding rather than someone who was just doing it because they made a commitment, so I kindly told her that she could break her commitment and didn't have to do it. Now she isn't in the wedding nor is she coming to the wedding. Oddly enough I feel relieved, sure I have to reprint 120 programs but I feel so less stressed out and happy that I'm not walking on egg shells anymore. Everything will work out in the end, I'm sure of it. I atleast have my wonderful FI and thats really the only person I need standing with me on my wedding day! Just wanted to share my story, it always feels better to get things off my chest lol.