Welp, welcome to wedding planning I suppose! I'd been in contact with a recommened photographer for weeks, e-mailing back and forth, building a great rapport with her. I told her the date I was looking at, she said she was wide open for that time and I told her that the next day we were going to talk to the Priest to finalize the date and that I would contact her as soon as the date was set, which I did of course. So I wait and wait, a week later, she finally e-mails me back, she'd already booked someone else!!!! I mean come on, we're planning our wedding for May of 2014! What are the odds that someone else wanted to book her for our exact date?! I was crushed! I felt like a friend betrayed me, then I realized, this is the game. So back to square 1 for a photographer!