TMI Tuesday

LOTON01

Sorry I am a bit late ladies. I stayed up too late watching the football game so I am running slow this morning.

What is the craziest place you have ever had sex? Was it with FI?

Milsey32

Wasn't this question already asked?

LOTON01

Hmmm maybe. Do you have another question that might be good to ask. I can't think of any. I didn't think I already asked this.

matuofm

well, following the topic of sex and relationships, how about:

What would you do/how would you respond if it turned out that FI/DH had cheated?  Could you get past it, or would it be a relationship-ender?

LOTON01

matuofm. Thanks for helping a girl out. I have had a crazy day and no time to get one today.

I want to say I would leave FI immediately but I think that question is a hard one. What do you consider cheating? I have always believed that a emotional affair is way worse than an actual physical affair. I think I would be way more hurt if FI fell for someone else than if he had just went and had a one night stand.

The situational and what is going on in our lives would make a hug impact on what I would do. Maybe try to work it out and maybe just walk away. Either way I don't if it would be something I could ever get over and move forward from.

drewmw

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-9?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:2ba70881-0529-4f15-9020-0c0f15af90cePost:549a4829-2555-4191-9cd2-f5388f087583">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
[QUOTE]matuofm. Thanks for helping a girl out. I have had a crazy day and no time to get one today. I want to say I would leave FI immediately but I think that question is a hard one. What do you consider cheating?<strong> I have always believed that a emotional affair is way worse than an actual physical affair. I think I would be way more hurt if FI fell for someone else than if he had just went and had a one night stand.</strong> <strong>The situational and what is going on in our lives would make a hug impact on what I would do</strong>. Maybe try to work it out and maybe just walk away. Either way I don't if it would be something I could ever get over and move forward from.
Posted by LOTON01[/QUOTE]

I agree with LOTON. It would really depend on the nature of the cheating, like what actually happened, as well as what is going on in our lives. For instance, if this were to happen after we have children, I would be waaaay more likely to try and work it out.

Milsey32

okay this is not supposed to be biitchy at all Lauren but it was bugging me so I had to research- The question was asked on 9/20 http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-5

okay, anyway, as for my relationship - I don't believe in cheaters and whatnot but at the same time I think I'd have to be in the situation to really know how I'd respond. 

lmalear01

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[QUOTE]matuofm. Thanks for helping a girl out. I have had a crazy day and no time to get one today. I want to say I would leave FI immediately but I think that question is a hard one. What do you consider cheating?<strong> I have always believed that a emotional affair is way worse than an actual physical affair. I think I would be way more hurt if FI fell for someone else than if he had just went and had a one night stand. The situational and what is going on in our lives would make a hug impact on what I would do. Maybe try to work it out and maybe just walk away.</strong> Either way I don't if it would be something I could ever get over and move forward from.
Posted by LOTON01[/QUOTE]


I agree with this totally.

LOTON01

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-9?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:88Discussion:2ba70881-0529-4f15-9020-0c0f15af90cePost:a3bbe8f3-ade7-4d74-851a-e3707fd74399">Re: TMI Tuesday</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>okay this is not supposed to be biitchy at all Lauren but it was bugging me so I had to research- The question was asked on 9/20 <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-5" rel='nofollow'>http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_tmi-tuesday-5</a></strong> okay, anyway, as for my relationship - I don't believe in cheaters and whatnot but at the same time I think I'd have to be in the situation to really know how I'd respond. 
Posted by Milsey32[/QUOTE]

<div>Thanks for looking it up. Maybe I need some new ideas for questions. If any one has any suggestions send them my way. :)</div>

missmelanie81

I agree with everyone else. I think I could probably forgive a one night stand Vs. an emotional affair. With that said....It would take ALOT of work. I dont forgive/forget easily....so maybe even in the end...I couldnt handle it.