I have a complicated family situation which leads to confusion with what I'm going to do about our FG and RB. As of right now we have FI's only niece (8) as our FG and one of FI's nephews (6) as our RB. We are close with their family and they are excited to be in the wedding.
We are debating having my 2 youngest siblings in our wedding as well, they will be the same ages as the current ones. So here comes the complicated situation.
I was adopted when I was a baby because my parents were young. In my adult life I have re-connected with my biological family and everything is wonderful, my biological sister (birth mother's daughter) has become my bff and is my moh. My birth father has a daughter who will be 8 and son who will be 6 and we are torn if we want them in the wedding. FI absolutely wants them and I do as well, but am worried about it being awkward because they haven't seen me very much and I don't want to put them in an uncomfortable situation. We are trying to plan a trip to visit them in Chicago this spring, and we were invited to spend some time at the family cottage this summer as well. If we see them both those times we may be close enough that it would not be awkward.
So, with the wedding being at the end of October, how late would it be okay to ask them?
Sorry that was so long winded.
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