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Advice Needed

My fiance & I have set our date to be married June 2013. We have discuss all details of our wedding but he has not formally proposed yet. When I meet him he had been separated from his current wife for over a year. The divorce has been filed and they have been going back and forth to court. She is really bitter and keep finding ways to get the divorce delayed. The next court date is August and I am 339 days away from our big day. We started looking at venues to have our reception and I found one with the date and a great price. I am torn if I should put down the deposit now or wait until the divorce is final.
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Re: Advice Needed

  • This is really touchy, I would definitly wait!  If she is doing that, then its making problems and you want him to be free & clear so he can move on.. it sucks but you should wait... sorry!
  • I totally agree with dixfam4. I know for many patience is difficult (I'm the WORST at waiting!), but in this case, you would lose deposits and have the very embarrassing prospect of having to cancel a wedding because all the paperwork has not gone smoothly.

    Some women have a hard time letting go. I think your best bet is to wait. After all, the best things in life are worth waiting for!

    You can still get that venue, and probably for a good price once it's all finalized. Might not be June, but there's nothing wrong with waiting.........it just gives you more time to save for an even grander wedding.

    Good luck.
  • Thanks Ladies for the kind thoughts. Mtishawt, you really freaked me out with your friend situation. I'm going to wait and pray that everything will be over come Aug. June 22 is very significant to us and I hope I don't have to change the date.
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