So we are getting ready to finalize our venue contract tomorrow. Unfortunately with our choice of venue and the cost per plate for just the buffet and open bar, we can't do any pre-reception appetizers! To make matters worse we have decided to have our ceremony start at about 3:00pm, and then have the reception start at about 5:00pm so we can have time to take pictures at various locations in the city. I have gone to weddings where there were gaps in the ceremony and reception start time, but there were usually appetizers for guests to eat while they were waiting on the bride and groom. How do you feel about this? I don't feel too bad about it because appetizers really aren't in our budget, but I'm starting to feel bummed that people may get offended.
Thoughts?