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AW: B pics and other randoms :)

I think AW still = attention whore, right???  :)

I got the proofs for the boudoir pics we did last week.  Got some good ones...got some not so good ones...LOL  But excited either way :)  Now I just need to pick some for him to edit for a little book thing!

Last night FI and I got our rings...we had to order his but they said it should be in next week...woot! 

FI picked out a wedding gift for himself and bought a watch that matches his ring!  It looks really sharp!  He doesnt normally just buy things like that spur of the moment, so I was glad he did.

Got the chuppah together...going to buy the fabric today and see how that looks.

Got mail on Saturday that was adressed to MRS. KENDRA <FUTURE LAST NAME /> it was kinda exciting...even more exciting that it was a credit card that FI ordered for me on his account :)

I need to pick up the marriage license this week :(  I get anxiety going to places like the courthouse, because I dont know where I am going and I feel stupid.

FI and I got into a spat last night regarding our bachelor/ette parties (which explains the question about what your FI is doing for his)...He says they arent going to the strip club but I saw him and a friend joking about going...so I questioned it...and it turned into a bigger deal than what it really was.  I guess part of me really doesnt care about him going (he knows there are boundaries that we have discussed)...but then part of me also gets bugged by it (the insecure me)...shrug.  They arent going, so it really is a dead issue.

Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :)

  • Julz629Julz629 member
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    edited December 2011
    Don't fret about the strip club thing.  I honestly don't understand it and FI generally doesn't like the bar or strip clubs, but I think he is going because he feels like he HAS TO since it's his bachelor party.  I suggested making a day of a baseball game and the casino, but he shot it down and told me it was his bachelor party.  I think his friends would give him a hard time about being "whipped" or something if he didn't want to go to the strip clubs.  Apparently peer pressure is still pretty powerful at 29 years old.  LOL

    And congrats on making progess on everything else!  Sounds busy, but it sounds like everything is coming together.
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  • kendrajoy22kendrajoy22 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_aw-b-pics-other-randoms?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:5c1a0354-5856-4d17-91f9-730d1ce04dd1Post:b83fae19-b64e-4ac1-bd01-7c4c10abc147">Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Don't fret about the strip club thing.  I honestly don't understand it and FI generally doesn't like the bar or strip clubs, but I think he is going because he feels like he HAS TO since it's his bachelor party.  I suggested making a day of a baseball game and the casino, but he shot it down and told me it was his bachelor party.  I think his friends would give him a hard time about being "whipped" or something if he didn't want to go to the strip clubs.  Apparently peer pressure is still pretty powerful at 29 years old.  LOL And congrats on making progess on everything else!  Sounds busy, but it sounds like everything is coming together.
    Posted by jholbel[/QUOTE]

    OMG you just said exactly our situation!  FI says he doesnt want to go but feels like if his friends want to go that he has to go...I was like...just tell them no then.  LOL  That didnt go over well with him.  SO odd...FI is 29 too!  LOL  Thanks for sharing...it makes me feel better :)
  • edited December 2011
    Did you build your own chuppah?
  • kendrajoy22kendrajoy22 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_aw-b-pics-other-randoms?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:5c1a0354-5856-4d17-91f9-730d1ce04dd1Post:9ee09654-3108-4fff-a18d-ee5406d85b0a">Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Did you build your own chuppah?
    Posted by Megan2oo2[/QUOTE]

    Kinda...I found a bamboo canopy on craigslist and I am going to set it up a little different..but its gonna work for what I need it to..plus...only $50!!!  (Plus material)...so much cheaper than renting and easier than building.
  • Julz629Julz629 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://detroit.weddings.com/Sites/weddings/Pages/main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_aw-b-pics-other-randoms?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:5c1a0354-5856-4d17-91f9-730d1ce04dd1Post:ffd73bcf-07db-4650-bd11-3b370187365f">Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :) : OMG you just said exactly our situation!  FI says he doesnt want to go but feels like if his friends want to go that he has to go...I was like...just tell them no then.  LOL  That didnt go over well with him.  SO odd...FI is 29 too!  LOL  Thanks for sharing...it makes me feel better :)
    Posted by kendrajoy22[/QUOTE]

    That's too funny.  Yeah, FI doesn't even really enjoy the bars or clubs that much.  The only time he really goes to the bars is to watch a game with his friends and drink some beers.  But hey, it's his night.

    I am also incredibly annoyed because I feel like he's doing too much of the planning.  First of all, they are hanging out at OUR HOUSE beforehand.  Don't even get me started on that...  It's ridiculous that one of his groomsmen won't have it at their house.  Secondly, even though his brother is paying, FI is calling around to reserve limos, kegs, etc.  We got in an argument because I told him his friends should be doing all the work for him and he basically told me to butt out. 
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  • kendrajoy22kendrajoy22 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_michigan-detroit_aw-b-pics-other-randoms?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:88Discussion:5c1a0354-5856-4d17-91f9-730d1ce04dd1Post:ea4d8ffc-5b53-437b-94c7-9fff903f41c2">Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AW: B pics and other randoms :) : That's too funny.  Yeah, FI doesn't even really enjoy the bars or clubs that much.  The only time he really goes to the bars is to watch a game with his friends and drink some beers.  But hey, it's his night. I am also incredibly annoyed because I feel like he's doing too much of the planning.  First of all, they are hanging out at OUR HOUSE beforehand.  Don't even get me started on that...  It's ridiculous that one of his groomsmen won't have it at their house.  Secondly, even though his brother is paying, FI is calling around to reserve limos, kegs, etc.  We got in an argument because I told him his friends should be doing all the work for him and he basically told me to butt out. 
    Posted by jholbel[/QUOTE]

    Yeah but guys are dumb and arent good planners.  I would be upset too though!
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