For all of you doing, or have done, a seating chart, how did you do it? Did you put family with family or did you mix everybody up? I was all for mixing everybody but FI said no so we are not. We have it done but due to the still aunt and cousin situation we have two tables who could end up being 5 people (our tables seat 10 comfortably). We have 4 other tables with 8, 3 with 9 and the rest with 10. I'm irritated with doing this part of it.