So bummed :( (NWR)

aloisk57

So I just got word that I did not get my dream job that I interviewed for on June 1.  I am so disappointed.  I'm tired of hearing that I don't have enough experience for 1 position (Sr. Buyer) but I have too much for another (Buyer).  I know that I shouldn't let my self-worth hinge on whether or not I get a job, but I am so upset.  I LOATHE my current job and I was so looking forward to getting into a company that treats their employees well.  I just want to cry and eat brownies right now.  Sorry for the vent

kikirst33

Hang in there!

You will find and get that dream job.  I just started a new job on Monday and I am finally feeling like I found a place where I can use all my skills and knowledge.... this after years of working my bum off to get some expeirience.

Can you ask the company/recruiter what other job expeirince they fell you need to get this job?  Even if you didn't get the job they may appreciate the fact that you want to know what you need to do to continue to grow.

mpickl

I know the feeling. Although it sucks right now, hang in there. The perfect job is right around the corner!

Sue-n-Kevin

I can only say I'm sorry to hear this because it upsets you. When I was searching for a new job about 7 years ago, there were jobs I prayed I'd get. When I found out I did not, I was often devastated. However, after I sort of gave up, a recruiter I'd met with about a year earlier called me for my current job, and it was the best thing that happened. I love what I do and who I work for.

I also found out from other people in the industry that one of the jobs I missed out on when I was looking, that job went pfffffffft. I would have left a job I loved but didn't pay enough for a job that didn't last long.

Sometimes these things are a gift, but you don't know it yet. Sorry to sound like a Pollyanna, but based on my own life experiences, and now the experiences I've seen with others including my son, this often ends up being the case.

Try to stay positive although it is hard, because it helps, and makes  you healthier. But go ahead, have a brownie or glass of wine if you want! Those are also in their own way healthy, LOL.

sparkles776

As someone who also loathes their current job, I am so sorry, but hang in there, you will find something!

vk2204

I am sorry, that sucks. Try to stay positive, I know easier said than done, but keep your chin up. Also, you never know who is 'watching' and has connections. Where I work, my job was eliminated because I had the least seniority, barely 8 months on the job. But there was a temporary opening and my manager told me they wanted me to take the position. She had heard nothing but good things from other people and they didn't want to lose me. Now, I am the assistant to the Plant Director and I am in this positon because other people, who I have had little contact with, saw my potential.

Things will work out for ya, just keep smiling!

PhoneCardLady

I have several problems.  I have been out of work due to a disability for over 20 years.  Pleople don't want to hire me because I have been out of work so long.  The other is education.  Most want a bachelor degree and I only have an associate.  They want a degree while I have common sense.

aloisk57

Thanks everyone!  I ate some cookies n cream frozen yogurt and did some good workouts, so I'm feeling better.  It's great to have all of your support

entropicbeauty

Sorry about not getting the job - hang in there!

It took me a year and a half after getting out of school to finally land a job i wanted. I took a job as a manager at a jimmy johns, I worked as a nanny, I worked at a bank..none of those were things I wanted to do. My persistence paid off though, and because I had continually applied for anything and everything in my field, after many many interviews I finally landed the job I have now.

I like to think of looking for a new job as a full time job in and of itself. It requires a LOT of effort, but in the end it will pay off, just give it time

zantster

Definitely stay positive.  And network like crazy!  Vk2204 is so right about making conections and never knowing who's looking at you.  That's why it is so important to look, speak and dress the part in case you run into someone who can help you.  I HATED my last job.  It took me a couple years to transition to the one I have now.  And I would never have known about the position or have gotten my foot in the door if I hadn't t stumbled upon a fellow college alumnus at an event in Ann Arbor who I'd never met before and who I just began talking to casually about my life goals.  He had amazing connections and was able to make an introduction happen that changed my life.  You never know when and where these things can happen so be optimistic and keep a smile on your face.  Use whatever affirmations can help with that as well.  For me my spiritual beliefs and materials helped immensely.  Good luck!

MrsGilliatt

4 months and 3 weeks to the big day...PUT DOWN THE BROWNIES.  Perhaps trade for a glass (or bottle) of wine. 

The world will repay you for putting up with bullsmack soon enough.  I understand the bs behind hating your job and missing out on a great opportunity - and I can promise you that it's not worth it to get your panties in a wad because you will find something better before you rip out your hair.

Stay focused on the wedding and drink lots of wine.