Do I need to do thank yous?

allikl62

I'm having my Bachelorette Party this weekend.  We are going to Toronto tonight through Sunday afternoon.  In addition to my bridal party, I have two other friends coming, plus my mom, aunt and cousin.  They are not going to be getting me gifts (I am 100% okay with that) because they will be covering most of my stuff for the weekend, like my hotel room, pole dancing class, etc.  They are paying about $150-175 total for the weekend, plus their drinks/food. 

I was thinking it would be good for me to send a thank you to all of them, what do you guys think?  Should I thank them for paying for me? or just for coming?  I care much more about the fact that they are all going to be there than any sort of $ stuff, but obviously I am thankful for that too. I have never gotten a thank you for attending a bachelorette party, but I feel like in this case it might be nice.  Thoughts?

emarston1

I don't think it is every inappropriate to send a thank you.  If you feel like you should/want to, do it.

Gwenwhyfare

When in doubt, send it. There's no harm in receiving a thank you card/note for something.

DetroitGyrl

Yeah.. I would give them thank yous.. people LOVE hand written notes. But it wouldn't be wrong if you didn't... But it you wanted to - I think that would be a great gesture.

Julz629

I would.  Maybe you could say something like "thanks for coming for the weekend and for everything to did to make sure I had a great weekend."

brobin01

I didn't send any Thank You's, but it would be nice to do so. I just gave each of them a hug on our last day and told them how special my weekend was. I also told them how I appreciate everything. It was a nice moment.