like finding a needle in a haystack...

eclibra

On finding the videographer:

I haven't actually met with any yet because the sample videos I am finding online are not at all what I am interested in.  Does anyone know, or can recommend a good videographer.  I'm looking for a specific approach.  I'd like to find something like this http://vimeo.com/paperbackweddings
but they are all the way in California, as have been other videographers I've liked.  So unless I plan on picking up all my wedding plans and bringing them to California...does anyone have any suggestions?

probablykate

I don't know if I understand what you're looking for based on your post but if I get it at all you might like Blue Sky Photography.  We met with him when looking for a photographer and decided not to go with him but he showed us a wedding video he did that I feel like might be the style you are looking for.  http://www.blueskyphotographyny.com/