Ok so in trying to come up with a place that will allow us to have a small wedding (-50ppl.) it's almost near impossible in the Westchester area. So, I came up with a somewhat cute solution. We get married at Glen Island(we use to go there when we were teens and dating, so its memorable for us), then go have an early dinner or whatnot at a nice restaurant with our 35 or so people (hopefully have a private room where they will at the very least let us play an ipod for our first dance song and thats it) and for whoever would like to go out dancing...we go to a nice lounge type place where they play some good music.