My fiancee and I are looking into doing a donation along with a cute container of the sugared almonds. After searching through charaties, we have decided to go through the make a wish fondation, since our biggest dream is coming true. My question is, how much is usually given? Is it done per person or a lump sum? Have you everr gone to a wedding where a charatable donation was given? Were you ok with it, or did it bother you? Thanks for your help.