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Wedding website - concerns?

Hello ladies, I know you can password protect your wedding site/blog or make it invite only BUT I'd like to make it easy for people to find and view.  Has anyone had any problems with a public site?  Any trolls or privacy problems?  Anything you recomment I NOT post to the public site?  What do you recommend? 

Thanks!

Re: Wedding website - concerns?

  • jenvaletjenvalet member
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    edited December 2011
    I had a public site on mywedding.com and didn't have any issues. 
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  • edited December 2011
    I would just not link it here.
  • edited December 2011
    I agree, I wouldn't link it here.  The only issues I've heard of people having are if they had a stalker ex or something. 
  • edited December 2011
    Why not link it here?
  • edited December 2011
    I guess something happened on one of the national boards where someone pissed someone off and they called and canceled their vendors.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_massachusetts-boston_wedding-website-concerns?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:89Discussion:0addf6c8-0740-4def-91c9-2dbaffa46a8fPost:58987a64-7110-4c18-8a5b-c3e96beb2dcb">Re: Wedding website - concerns?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I guess something happened on one of the national boards where someone pissed someone off and they called and canceled their vendors.
    Posted by EKobrenski[/QUOTE]

    Exactly. This is the same reason we discourage people having their full name in their sig. There have been plenty of incidents on here of people fighting and one person calling another's vendors and/or boss to get them in trouble. There are some creepy people out there and you just want to protect yourself.
  • edited December 2011
    I agree with above.  I don't have a link to it here, but it's on my STD's for my guests to have, we haven't had any problems with it so far, we're using mywedding.com
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  • edited December 2011
    Wow-- I had no idea brides could get so viscious. I wouldn't include your address... it would make it easier for people to mail you gifts or cards, but also advertises the exact days no one will be home.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddings.com/Sites/Weddings/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_massachusetts-boston_wedding-website-concerns?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:89Discussion:0addf6c8-0740-4def-91c9-2dbaffa46a8fPost:910be7e1-9d66-4158-be54-2d1af5f2ad9f">Re: Wedding website - concerns?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Wow-- I had no idea brides could get so viscious. I wouldn't include your address... it would make it easier for people to mail you gifts or cards, but also advertises the exact days no one will be home.
    Posted by Karen's MOH[/QUOTE]

    I think that's more psycho level. In some cases the FI's ex finds the person on the knot and does that too.
  • edited December 2011
    Oh yeah, the parties involved were certifiably insane. People disagree on these boards daily and nothing usually comes of it, but every once in a while some one freaks. That can happen on really any internet community though.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_massachusetts-boston_wedding-website-concerns?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:89Discussion:0addf6c8-0740-4def-91c9-2dbaffa46a8fPost:f03e5ed1-bbbc-4023-a99f-8635c8ffe1be">Re: Wedding website - concerns?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh yeah, the parties involved were certifiably insane. People disagree on these boards daily and nothing usually comes of it, but every once in a while some one freaks. That can happen on really any internet community though.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    I agree. This is also why we suggest that people don't use email addresses as their SN... because it's not just vicious brides out there, it's your garden variety whack jobs too (because you don't have to be a member to read the boards, just to post on them).

    In response to OP, I haven't had any problems with my wedding website. Mine is through Wedding Window.
  • edited December 2011
    I havent had any issues with my public site. Im using weddingpaperdivas.com . I payed 50 bucks for 2 years. I love it. I used free ones before but they didnt do what I wanted or look as good. 
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  • edited December 2011
    Well, thank you, ladies, and I will be on the lookout for psycho brides!
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