Thanks so much for the help, girls! They really did help. My specific tent problem is this: My parents and caterer and I want to do a 40 by 40 tent for 140 people with NO dance floor (dance floor inside), no bars, and a small (10 by 6 foot) area for acoustic music, and a small area for a slideshow. Basically, that means 10.2 square feet a person (accounting for the band and video screen).The tent people think we should upgrade to the 40 by 60, but I think we might swim in that (plus, it's $500 extra). Still, I'm torn because they are so set on it being too small.Opionions?