It's my day...

EKobrenski

We haven't had one in awhile!  Married ladies, too!

EKobrenski

It's my day, and no I'm not cutting close friends or asking my parents to do it so that you can invite near-strangers and their husbands!  And yes, I know paper lanterns are a want and not a need, but I want them and I'm the bride, damnit!

clbartnicki

It's my day and I don't care if you cheap out and don't stay at the hotel even though you are in the wedding party. I hope you enjoy your LONG.RIDE.HOME. Phew, I'm feeling these vents today! LOL

EKobrenski

Yeah I'm a major biatch today haha. 

MeaghanandMichael

hahah I love when you whip this one out Ekobs... hmmm, let me think of something I havn't shared. OH! It's my day and I won't have you chewing you nicorette gum when you read my reading at the church sister of mine. Go have a cigarette if it is that bad. I promise mom won't notice today. Don't look at me in shock when I hold out my hand and ask you to spit it out right before the processional. You are gross. Quit smoking and get healthy.

EKobrenski

Ha I gotta give kelmarfar creds.  And that made me laugh out loud. 

The Little One

It's my day and yes, I do mind that you do not want to do a speech because you "don't like public speaking". As the MOH you should want to stand up and say nice things about me! Just because you reproduced and gave my parents their first grandchild does not excuse you from being a decent friend/SIL/MOH--I want a toast in my honor!

cazzysmith

It's my day and I don't care if my girls have tattoos that show, no one will care or mind besides you, Grandma, so pretty please do not make a big deal about it!  (my poor sis is going to the expense and trouble of covering them up for fear of you, thanks very much!)

junelley

It's my day, and people, please stop trying to run MY wedding!  Let ME pick the colors and please, as a guest, do not try to find a dress to match the wedding colors, as you are not part of the wedding party!  Please show some respect for the bride.

richkatm

It's my day and it's gonna kick a$$ no matter how many times you tell me "don't worry something will go wrong" in that smarty pants snarky tone of yours.

foolforfood

Thinking back into the archives here... It's my day and if I want to spend the night dancing with my friends instead of making rounds with each table, I'll do it.  And here's what my friend actually pulled...for realz... It's my day and if I want to eat filet while all my guests get served chicken, I will. ...and she did!

Shazzie116

It's my day and if I decide I don't want to wear the $99 headband that I paid for, I don't have to!

choppinbroccoli22

Junelly, my MOH has an armband tattoo, on her right arm, that I love. She will look gorgeous in her lacey Jim Hjelm gown and rock that dangerous diving neckline none of my other BM's could handle!!It's MY day and you and your family will sit where I sit you, for 15 minutes. I have other considerations to worry about, like our four sets of parents all being close but not so close that you'll be in each other's peripheral vision for crying out loud. Thanks.

choppinbroccoli22

oops, i guess that was a shout out to Cazzy

jquirke9881

It's my day and I will spend a majority of the time talking and laughing with my new husband instead of the rest of you.  Yes I know we have the rest of my life together but he is the person here I want to be with and I do not want to spend this day talking to everyone else.  And I don't regret it even if I did piss people off by not chatting it up with eveyone else.  My hubby and I had a great day together. 

mrsandmrsbins

It's my day and if I want to dance to Journey at my reception, then you all are going to dance to Journey at my reception. Also, stop asking me if there will be *chairs to sit in*. Just because it is a stations dinner and not a plated meal with a seating chart doesn't mean we will all be standing around like flamingos!!! I don't know how many more ways I can explain this.

jamidandedb

Another one from the history books (at least for me) It's my day and deal MIL, coordinating wth my mother doesn't mean that you wear the same.exact.dress as my mother....it just means that you don't clash with what she's wearing. Please for the love of that is all good and evil, don't wear the same.exact.dress as her!!!! You're not a bridesmaid!

kamedio

ohh yay!! mine obviously happened but... it's my day and gf of one of groomsmen really shouldn't have bought a dress similar to the bridesmaids, in the same color after i showed you the picture-elly that was for you because that happened and you know what EVERYONE noticed her and said what a rude thing to do it was! it's also my day and so what if my DH and i are giggling and whispering to each other at the altar after not seeing each other and being so excited. your snarky comments about what could possible be so interesting up there is rude aunt who is a b*tch and made the afternoon about yourself. we didn't even want you there to start but had to invite you because you're related phew that felt good thanks ekobs!

kelmarfar

Hehehe... thanks ekobs- I've been slacking in my duties as my wedding gets closer and closer. Let's see now, I have a list (go figure) It's my day, so please let me know if you'll be joining me for it. Now would be a good time to send in that card that you've had for nearly 2 months. It's my day, Dad, so while I'm busy planning, organizing, and PAYING FOR it, you can figure out how you can get your lazy behind to MA to give away your only daughter. I've got enough to do without having to figure out everything for you. It's my day, and if I want to dye my shoes pink, I will dye my shoes pink. It's my day and I already have enough to do-- please don't try to add things to my to do list!

Mrkyrain

It's my day and I would have apprecated it if you hadn't worn white (since you are my future mother in law). or It's my day and I would have liked it if your husband and kids hadn't worn shorts to my formal wedding. True stories!!! Thanks ladies that was fun.

chest173

It's my day and I want Chivari chairs, even if it's $1000, just for chairs.

KiKitheBee

It is my DAY Mom. you do not need to be here for the MONTH before the wedding! plus 10 days before the wedding we will be in London any way.

mrogaleski

Late as usual, Alright......it's my day and I've been trying to involve you in the planning for over a year. Of course, now that there are 10 days until the wedding you finally want to chime in with your two cents. Sorry, you are not allowed to pout when your "ideas" are turned down. Most of the planning/decisions were made MONTHS ago!

JBs_Bride

It's my day and while I appreciate your "suggestions" for the ceremony, we're going to do what **we're** going to do. We are the ones getting married!- mrsandmrsbins - are there other kinds of chairs besides the kind you sit in? lol

Knottie6cd98948dcce890b

Better late than never.... It is my day and if I want to obsess over the color of the rugs in the ballroom, I will. And yes, LOVELY FIANCE, that means that you will visit ANOTHER venue with me. (through gritted teeth)

LyssaBella

Ohhh this is just what I need!!! It is MY DAY so please quit your bitchy snarky comments on Facebook about "sharing" your anniversary with me. You were not the only person who got/is getting married on Sept 17, and the fact you ended a 24 year friendship over it just proves to me that YOU are the selfish one. Lose as much weight as you want, but you remain UGLY on the inside! Whew..that felt good! [url=http://www.weddingcountdown.com][img]http://img.weddingcountdown.com/ticker/oajmop5.png[/img][/url]

cazzysmith

thanks for the shout out, FutureMrsBenard!  hope i'll get to see pics.

hbyrne31

I am fairly new to this board and I just loved this post! It's great that everyone comes on here to share their ideas and sometimes just to vent. It's my day and I can pick whichever bridesmaid dress I choose and if you don't like it you don't have to be in the wedding, the majority of dresses are not under $150.  It's cheaper than the other three bridesmaid dresses I bought for weddings I'm in this year.

hydrangea082010

This is fun! I’ve been actually laughing out loud at some of your misfortunes (sorry!!). I have some time to go, but some people are already annoying me: It’s my day . . . and I am a paper-snob who is saving money in every other aspect of the wedding, so if I want my one big splurge to be $200 Hello!Lucky vintage-style, cotton-paper invitations, then I will!! So crazy (and I think jealous) neighbor, stop smirking and telling me “it’s so stupid, people are only gonna throw them away.” I don’t care! They make me happy!!! It’s my day . . . and I’m the bride which means I get to choose the wedding colors. So, my loving sister, I’d appreciate it if you’d stop telling me “yellow is not for weddings.” It’s my day . . . and if I want to keep my nose stud in on my wedding day, then deal with the pictures Grandma! It’s my day . . . and if we want to be “green” and have rsvping be strictly online, stop telling me you don’t have a computer, Grandma - - you have a phone (you know that instrument you’re holding right now?) and can call me and tell me you’re coming (if I haven’t changed my number to hide from you by then). It’s my day . . . and it’s still over twenty months away, Mom, so if you could stop ending every phone call we have with “and if you allow your father to bring a date, I’m not going!!” that’d be great. He’s not even dating anyone right now. And on that last note, Mom, could you please stop asking if FI and I have given any thought to your suggestion of having 2 weddings - one for your side of the family, and one for Dad’s. The idea is nuts. And stupid. You’re not the first couple on the planet to ever divorce. Put on your big girl panties for 6 hours out of your life. Do it for me?

KBackus12

OOH OOH ME TOO!! So happy to vent! It's our day (sorry I had to include the guy here) MOM and if I'd rather have an icecream bar instead of a pasta course then I'll have the icecream bar. I don't care Dad's paying for most of it. You're not married to him anymore so you don't get a say. There's starving children all over the world and if we'd rather not spend what feeds a small African country for a year we WON'T do it.

hydrangea082010

KBackus - I totally want an invite to your wedding if there will be an ice cream bar!!! Dude!! Is it like a make your own sundae bar? Or like a retro ice cream truck? Details!!!