I got mine on Ebay from a designer. They were so affordable and personalized. She really worked with me and got the right colors etc. She ships really fast as well. I think her candles are the same price as in the stores and you get to have them personalized. Here was mine:
Instead of buying a unity candle 'set' I used the waterford crystal candle stick holders from our wedding, and then happened to luck out and find a large crystal big candle stand for the middle candle at Homegoods. The candle itself was white with a black ribbon, which matched our black and white theme. It looked gorgeous - I know I'm biased but it was definitely the best I've seen anywhere!
Re: Unity Candle Set
I am using a unity candle for my upcoming wedding and I purchased it at Michaels.
Jules
I got my holder at A.C. Moore.
Here is her ebay store link:
http://stores.ebay.com/weddingfavorsjustonline
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