My FI and I recently found out that one of our groomsmen will be deployed at the time of our wedding. We are getting married in a Catholic church and I still want to include him in the bridal party and wedding day. I plan on writing a special Prayer of the Faithful for him to be read at mass. I also want to keep him listed as a groomsmen on the wedding program. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? any suggestions on how to include him in some way at the wedding?