Let's improve our relationships!

AlexaGrant

Anybody have any suggestions for good quizzes or worksheets for FI and me to go through to have some good discussions about our future together?  I know FOCCUS is good - not trying to cheat for that! - just want to begin preparing the foundation for our lives together and improve our bond as we go through the wedding planning process.  TIA

Blueyed228

I dont have any quizzes or worksheets, but you definately need to discuss your financial plan.  What you expect to contribute each month, plans for when kids come and you are not working.  Most marriages I know that have ended with problems have always been about money.

Be upfront about the debt you are bringing, if any, and your plans.

Also, talk about when you are planning on having kids.  How long you want to wait etc.

I think that a good way to bond over your wedding is to talk about what is the most exciting part for each of you and why.

LexiMS

we are doing Prepare/Enrich, you need a facilitater to do it.  It covers all aspects of a relationship, including how your family relationships have shaped ou.